'....you've gotta be cruel to be kind............'

i think about it and i'm beginning to see clearer what they mean when they say that......... it's much more merciful to give someone the ultimatum isn't it? rather than tethering on the edge of not knowing what to expect and give? to a certain someone, it's not what you get in the end, but the process of getting there........ (haha....... i got that from 'Bedazzled'........ can you imagine? but well............. i agree with that.......................) life's a journey, made up of lil quests and peppered with tiny bonus games that not all of us get to play.............. but it doesn't matter what the points we accumulate are or whether we're in the red.......... what matters is that at the end of the day, we can say without a doubt that we had fun, and that we weren't unscrupulous............ as long as we can lift our head up high.................

Hey, Hey
Did you ever think
There might be another way
To just feel better,
Just feel better about today

Oh no
If you never want to have
To turn and go away
You might feel better,
Might feel better if you stay

Yeah yeah
I bet you haven't heard
A word I've said
Yeah yeah
If you've had enough
Of all your tryin'
Just give up
The state of mind you're in

If you want to be somebody else,
If you're tired of fighting battles with yourself
If you want to be somebody else
Change your mind...

Hey hey
Have you ever danced in the rain
Or thanked the sun
Just for shining, just for shining
Or the sea?
Oh no, take it all in
The world's a show
And yeah, you look much better,
Look much better when you glow

Hey hey
what ya say
We both go and seize the day
'cause what's your hurry
what's your hurry anyway
- 'change your mind', sister hazel

the state of heaven of hell is all in our mind; there exists a heaven on earth if we stop being myopic and look in the right places.................... but its equivalent exists too............ if we search too hard; too desperately; in the wrong places; for the wrong reasons........ we might just land ourselves in hell..............
Cheerios!!!!!!!!